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Lit candles form the shape of a cross inside of a heart. Photo by Wingchi Poon, courtesy Flickr.

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While strife and war may seem pervasive, we can still be people of peace.

Let peace begin with me: United Methodist and Muslim relations


A Feature by Joe Iovino*

In the midst of tensions around the globe, many are wondering what the relationship between Christians and Muslims is supposed to look like. The Rev. Dennis Perry and the congregation of Aldersgate United Methodist Church in Alexandria, Virginia, found themselves in the middle of a national conversation about this relationship several years ago.

A neighboring Muslim congregation was displaced from their mosque during renovations. Due to scheduling glitches, the construction began around the same time as Ramadan. The imam of the mosque contacted Aldersgate UMC asking if his congregation could meet in Aldersgate’s all-purpose room on Fridays for prayer during this sacred season.

The Rev. Dennis Perry appeared on

When word got out about the arrangement, the Rev. Dennis Perry was asked to appear on "The Daily Show with Jon Stewart." Photo courtesy of the Rev. Dennis Perry.

Perry said, “Sure.” That’s when all kinds of… let’s call it… excitement broke loose. Word got out about his decision, and the two congregations sharing space became a hot topic. Everyone it seemed, including Fox News and “The Daily Show,” debated whether the pastor had made the right call in welcoming their Muslim neighbors to worship in a Christian church building.

While there was not a lot of interaction between the Sunday United Methodist worshipers and the Muslim congregation that met in the all-purpose room on Fridays, the attention both groups received created an opportunity for dialogue.

During two sessions in which the congregations shared lunch, United Methodists heard answers to questions like, “What is it like to be a Muslim in our community?” Some eyes were opened when they heard stories of people whispering behind their neighbors’ backs things like, “You’re a terrorist.”

The Rev. Dennis Perry preaching at Aldersgate UMC.

The Rev. Dennis Perry serves as lead pastor of Aldersgate United Methodist Church in Alexandria, Virginia. Photo courtesy of the Rev. Dennis Perry.

Perry remembers how the lunchtime conversations allowed each congregation to see the other as “plain, peaceful people.” One teenage Muslim girl shared at one of the gatherings how “it had never occurred to her mind that a Christian could be a friend.” Which points to the larger problem.

“Along with our high level of trust within our own tribe, comes a level of mistrust of other tribes,” Perry teaches. But when it comes to the other tribe, we see “evidence” of our assumptions, good and bad, in the acts of a small, less-than-representative group.

The solution is not to pretend our differences do not exist. “That is a lie,” Perry said, “We are not all the same.” But, Perry points out, there seems to be a “rising of interest in coming together for peace, while recognizing our differences.”

Let’s begin today

The world is becoming ever more connected. News travels fast and no action is solely local. Perry knows this firsthand. His local church’s decision quickly became national news in the U.S.

Maybe though, the church can capitalize on our global connectedness. If stories of hatred and division can spread, so can stories of love and peace.

Let us begin living and sharing stories of coming together in peace and for peace like that of Aldersgate United Methodist Church’s year-long journey with their Muslim neighbors.

In the words of a song many of us sing during Christmas, “Let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me” (The United Methodist Hymnal 431).

Questions for reflection:

  • When you read about two different faiths sharing space, what do you celebrate? What makes you uneasy?
  • Resolution: Prejudice Against Muslims and Arabs in the USA, from the 2016 Book of Resolutions. Where does this resolution match what you already feel? Where does it challenge you?
  • When John Wesley wrote his “General Rules” he included under “Do no harm” avoiding participation in some societal ills of his day, like slaveholding and trading, and illegally buying or selling goods without paying the duty. What might he include today?
  • The Bible tells us we are to share in the ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:11-21). How does that apply to our relationships with people of other faiths?
  • Jesus taught, “Blessed are the peacemakers.” How can you be a peacemaker? How does peace begin with “me”?

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Editorial note: This story was first published January 20, 2015.

*Joe Iovino works for at United Methodist Communications. He may be reached at or 615.312.3733.